Khali Kursiyan, Adhoori Baatein aur Der se Aane Wale Aansu

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Khali Kursiyan, Adhoori Baatein aur Der se Aane Wale Aansu

Hum insaan bhi kitne ajeeb aur nadan hain, hum aksar zindagi ko ek mamooli si aadat samajh lete hain, aur is se jude rishton ko aise jaise woh patthar ki lakeer hon, jo kabhi nahi mitenge. Hum unki maujoodgi ko hawa ki tarah samajhte hain, jo har waqt ird-ird maujood hai, lihaza hum uski qadr karna bhool jaate hain. Hum un logon ki maujoodgi mein unki mohabbaton ko ek bojh ya "farz" samajh kar nazar-andaaz karte rehte hain.

Jeete Ji Khamoshi, Marne ke Baad Shor

Kitna bada almiya hai yeh ki jab tak woh shakhs zinda hota hai, hamare paas uski baat sunne ka waqt nahi hota. Woh shakhs, jo hamari zindagi ke har chhote bade pal mein shamil hota hai, hum uski maujoodgi ko ek pas-manzar (background) ki tarah maan lete hain. Woh jab humein awaaz deta hai, hum sarsari sa jawab de kar guzar jaate hain. Jab woh apni tanhai baantna chahta hai, hum apne kaamon mein mashghool ho jaate hain. Jab woh hamare sath baith kar kuch waqt guzarna chahta hai, toh hum use "baad mein" keh kar taal dete hain. Woh hamari chhoti chhoti talkhiyon ko bardasht karta hai, hamare lehjon ki chubhan sehta hai, aur khamoshi se apni mohabbat ke charagh jalata rehta hai.

Phir ek din... zindagi ka safar achanak ruk jata hai. Woh shakhs, jo kal tak hamare ghar ke kisi kone mein maujood tha, ab sirf ek yaad ban kar reh jata hai. Aur tab shuru hota hai woh karb, woh pachtawa jo rooh ko chhalni kar deta hai.

Kafan mein Lipi Hui Yaadein aur Zameer ka Matam

Jab woh shakhs khamosh ho jata hai, tab humein uski awaaz ki shiddat mehsoos hoti hai. Jab woh kamra khali ho jata hai, tab uski maujoodgi ka ehsas ek bojh ban kar seene par aa girta hai. Hum uski qabar par ja kar baithte hain, mitti ke dheer ko hath lagate hain aur apni aankhon se woh aansu bahate hain jin ki qemat ab sifar ho chuki hai.

Hum un cheezon ko choomte hain jo usne istemal ki hoti hain. Hum un paigamon ko baar baar padhte hain jinhein humne kabhi padhne ki zahmat nahi ki thi. Hum duniya ko yeh batane ke liye ki hum kitne ghamgeen hain, unki tasveerein lagate hain, afsos bhare status update karte hain aur apni ana ko tasalli dete hain ki "dekho, hum kitna pyar karte the". Lekin haqeeqat mein hum us waqt us shakhs ke liye nahi, balki apne "zameer" ke liye ro rahe hote hain. Hum isliye nahi ro rahe hote ki woh humein chhod gaya, balki isliye ro rahe hote hain ki humne waqt rehte use woh izzat, woh tawajjoh aur woh mohabbat nahi di jis ka woh haqdar tha.

Hum rote hain kyunki ab woh hamare samne nahi hai ki hum use gale laga kar keh saken, "mujhe maaf kar do, main ne tumhe bohat nazar-andaaz kiya". Ab woh humse bohat door hai, jahan hamari cheekhein, hamari nadamat aur hamare aansu use nahi pahunch sakte.

Mohabbat ka Izhaar Waqt se Karo, Aansoon se Nahi

Aaj jo log aapke paas hain, chahe woh aapke walidain hon, aapka shareek-e-hayat ho, ya aapke woh dost jo aapke dukh sukh ke sathi hain, yaad rakhein yeh sab ek aarzi amanat hain. Yeh jo aapki awaaz par palat kar dekhte hain, yeh jo aapse baat karne ke liye waqt nikalte hain, yeh kitna bada ezaaz hai!

Kisi ke chale jaane ke baad unki qabron par ghulaab bichane se behtar hai ki jeete ji unke ghar ke raaston par phool bichaye jaaein. Kisi ke marne ke baad unki tasveeron par haar chadhane se behtar hai ki jeete ji unke chehre par ek muskurahat bikhair di jaye. Zindagi bahut be-rahm hai, yeh kisi ka intezar nahi karti. Ek baar waqt hath se nikal jaye, toh phir insaan sirf pachtawa lekar reh jata hai.

Aakhri Baat: Mayyat ke paas ja kar khoob ro lena toh duniya ka aasan tareen kaam hai, kyunki tab aapko kuch nahi karna padta. Asal bahaduri aur asal mohabbat toh yeh hai ki jo abhi aapke paas saans le rahe hain, unki itni qadr karein, unhein itna pyar dein, ki agar kal woh aapse bichhad bhi jaaein, toh aapko apne andar pachtaway ka koi kanta na chubhe.

Aaj fursat ke chand lamhe nikaalein, apne pyaron ke paas baithein, unka haal poochein, aur unhein batayein ki woh aapki zindagi mein kitni ahmiyat rakhte hain. Kyunki kal ka sooraj kis ki zindagi ke liye gharoob ho jaye, koi nahi jaanta.

Faqat aapki duaaon ka talabgar, Pardesi.